Physical
Common Reactions to Stress
Fatigue or low energy
Sleep difficulties
Headaches
Rapid Breathing
Rapid Heartbeat
Dizziness
Nausea/Vomiting
Blurry vision
Feeling jittery or shaky
Feeling weak/faint
Twitches
Hunger
Thirst
Mental
Indecisiveness
Concentration or attention difficulties
Confusion
Feeling disoriented
Forgetfulness
Difficulty with problem solving
Placing blame on others
Increased or decreased alertness
Intrusive memories
Racing thoughts
Nightmares
Searching for meaning
Changing values
Suicidal ideas
Emotional
Denial
Emotional numbness
Uncertainty
Irritability
Intense anger
More emotional
Apprehension
Apathy/boredom
Feelings of worthlessness
Anxiety
Grief
Helplessness
Difficulty controlling emotions
Decreased joy/pleasure in normal activities
Behavioral
Changes in appetite
Withdrawal from others
Inability to rest
Substance use
Suspiciousness
Changes in normal activity
Emotional outbursts
Changes in speech
Changes in communication
Diminished sex drive
Decreased personal hygeine
Coping with Stress
Maintain Structure
Keep your routines as best as possible. Structure each day to keep up with all priorities. Make daily decisions, no matter how small, to help increase a sense of control over your life. Eat well balanced and regular meals (despite change in appetite). Stay hydrated. Get in movement, and sunlight.
Talk It Out
Talking is the most healing medicine. Give yourself permission to feel your negative feelings, and share the experience with others. Don’t be afraid to reach out, people do care. Spend time with your friends, say “yes” to social opportunities. Help your friends by checking in on them, asking them how they are feeling and seeing how they are doing.
Take care of yourself (actually)
It is normal to experience stress, do not question yourself or label yourself. Get plenty of rest, allow yourself to enjoy down time. Do the things you enjoy, recreation is re-creation of energy, joy, focus and more. Do something physical, a nature walk, HIIT gym class, gentle stretching, a bike ride or a pickup sports game. Take breaks from social media and the news. Meditate, or take a moment of pause, connecting to the present moment. Journal or make art to express your feelings and gain “reflective distance”. Connect with your spirituality. Avoid making big life changes. Get medical care when needed. Know yourself, and your limits and be proactive in your healing process.